Woman looking at her phone, relieved

I know you are okay.

One tap a day. One bear. A small sign from Mom or Dad that today everything is fine.

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You are at work. Three meetings behind you. You notice you have not heard from your mother since yesterday evening.

You wonder for a moment whether you should call. Not because anything is wrong. You just want to know.

Then the notification arrives: Mom just tapped. 9:14 am. All good.

And you can get back to your day.

What Bearhugme does

Bearhugme is an app for two. You both tap once a day, and you both see it.

For Mom or Dad

One tap on a bear, once a day. That is all. No forms, no numbers, no health quiz. The bear is happy. And they see when you have tapped too.

For you

The same app. You tap too, and you see whether Mom or Dad has tapped today. A time. A quiet status. One look, and you know.

Why it is different

There are emergency apps. There are care apps. There is WhatsApp.

This is the space in between.

Bearhugme is not there to intervene when something bad happens. It is there to send a small warm signal every day that everything is fine.

That changes the relationship. You no longer have to ask. You know.

Who is it for?

What Bearhugme is not

Frequently asked questions

Is this an emergency app?

No. If you are worried that nobody would help your parent in an emergency, you need a home emergency call system. Bearhugme does something different: it makes sure every normal day has a small sign.

What if Mom forgets to tap one day?

Then you get a notification or an email the next morning: "How is Mom?" Mom gets an email too, saying that you were notified. Nothing happens behind her back. Mom picks the timing in her own app: the same evening, the next day (the default), after a few days, or never. What you do then is up to you. Usually a quick call is enough.

Does Mom need to be good with smartphones?

She needs to be able to press one single button. That is the whole app. No password, no menus. For many older people, that is simple enough.

In which countries is Bearhugme available?

Almost worldwide. Bearhugme is on the App Store and Google Play in almost every country, so it works even if you and your parents live in different ones. If it is not available in your country, let me know: [email protected].

Which languages does the app support?

English and German. In German, the app is known as Drück mich. Same app, same bear. Handy if your parents prefer German.

What does the app cost?

Nothing. Tapping, seeing whether someone tapped, and getting a heads-up if they didn't: that is free and stays free. For you and for Mom. The same goes for everything the app has today. I'm working on a few extras for the nice moments in between. Those will cost something. If you want to know when they're ready, sign up below.

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